Going the Extra Mile: A Dean’s Lister Spirit

 “Work hard, and never run dry.”

That is the very thing every student should keep in mind. 

Eunice Ronquillia Berina, a twenty year old and a fourth year Engineering student of the University of Perpetual Help System – Dalta Calamba Campus, has proven for the past 3 years of her college journey that the very key to success is hard work and passion. She is a consistent dean’s lister since freshmen year. Her father is a company driver whereas her mother is a fulltime housewife who never gets tired of running the household. She has two older sisters. One is a certified teacher, and the other one is a certified public accountant who helps out sustain her needs in school. 

Being a consistent Dean’s Lister was and still is a tough journey for Eunice. She have gone through obstacles before having the aforementioned honour. For the first two semesters she have taken, Eunice already became a Dean’s Lister. On her second year, she also had it in the first semester, and unfortunately failed in the second semester. But, it did not stop her in achieving higher and claiming the position she deserves. On her third year, she made it again for both two semesters. And now she is still facing the same battle with a pen and a paper in her hands.

As mentioned above, maintaining a General Weighted Average (GWA) of 1.75 and up for every semester is not a joke. In fact, the first time anyone gets such an honour is already given a responsibility to retain it because, for everyone who has known you of having that achievement, puts an expectation in everything you do. Plus, the factor that the family name you carry might be at risk when grades are neglected. And as Eunice have shared, she has shed tears in front of her family for failing to maintain the said GWA back in her second year college’s last semester.

Now, how does Eunice study?

Eunice usually go to a quiet place for her to focus on her studies. Her favorite spot to do her stuff at is in the Learning Resource Center – the library at UPHSD which she called ‘her office’. It is where she gets her work done. And as studies are concerned, Eunice do take her vacant time in school exclusive only for reviewing. And if not, attend the Supreme Students Council’s meetings where she is elected as the secretary. In short, she is a woman who takes her time preciously.

It is true that Eunice had and has struggles in maintaining grades. But, it did not make her feel restricted to having an enjoyment with her family and friends. As a matter of fact, sticking with social life most specifically with family, makes studies even lighter. There will be the love, the care, and support shown by each family members – an ingredient to cheer you on. And when everything is fine or feels heavy for her, and seems to be getting out of hand, still, she never forgets to pray and ask God for strength, knowledge, wisdom, and understanding. Yes, she is a faithful one. No wonder why God continuously grant the desires of her heart.

Not everyone is given an opportunity to have such an achievement in school. But Eunice just made a conception that in everything we do, we must have a humble heart and continuously work harder for our dreams. That very thing will keep our hearts burning for learning and for our chosen field. 

Raising three kids and sending them to college all at the same time was a tough battle for both her parents. But now, the success is just drawing nearer. That is why to inspire others to strive higher and harder, she is leaving her heartfelt motto – “I don’t regret the things I’ve done. I regret the things I didn’t do when I had the chance.” Hence, do not let the enemy within you, rule over you. If you are seeing an opportunity that is brighter and better, and beneficial not just for you but for your household, do not think twice. GRAB IT!

Lastly, when asked about tips in achieving higher in studies, she mentioned taking responsibility for your success or failure. “In college, you are in control of your fate. The more you work at your studies and the more you actively participate in your classes, the higher the probability for academic success. If you don’t take college seriously and don’t study to the level you need, don’t blame others for your below par academic performance.”

“Just be humble at any phase of your student life and never forget to pray. Moreover, never panic if your grades are not what you hoped or expected them to be. And do not study for the sake of studying. Always put a heart on everything you do,” she emphasized.uttered.

The Morning After

By Jessa Marie Barbosa

As you walk through the halls of the University, as you listen to your professor teaching the lesson for today, eat at the canteen, and hang out with your friends, has it ever occurred to you that your seatmate has experienced how it’s like to stay in the slum streets of Luneta, begging for food? Or maybe think that the person you’ve just come across in the canteen was once the farmer who dries the palays in order to become the rice that you have on your plate?

You won’t have to worry anymore for this person may be the last person who flashed you a smile.

With Nasir Lapangan’s friendly and light aura, one wouldn’t imagine that he has managed to went through all those challenges in life. he was enjoying his meal when we met, a smile spread across his face as he greeted me, “Upo ka“. I felt welcome all of a sudden. Little did I know that he’ll be sharing things about his life a little bit more than what I expected.

THE BREAK OF DAWN

Nasir, commonly known as Kim amongst his friends and classmates, was a smart child. He graduated as valedictorian during his elementary schooling. His tita was the one who supported him and was with him during his formative years. “Product ako ng broken family,” he shared. “Separated ‘yung mom and dad ko, and I never met my dad when I was younger.” However, this did not stop him from excelling well in school. 

The future was bright for Kim then. “Ever since I was a child, I’ve dreamt to be a lawyer,” he shared. He had the perfect mold for becoming a lawyer – he was eloquent, studious, and knows his obligations. His fruits of hard work paid off for he was sent to Puerto Prinseca City for his secondary education.

Hailing from the remote area of Palawan, he was an outsider when he was in high school. “Everyone was elite, ‘kung matalino ako noong elementary, ‘nung high school feeling ko ako ‘yung pinakabobo sa mga bobo.” Even with his academic load, Kim looked for jobs that could aid him in his school expenses. At seventeen, he became the youngest city tourist guide in Puerto Princesa. True enough, Kim excelled and managed to be the valedictorian of his class. You might think, what more could one ask for right?

THE NIGHT BEFORE

“Simula elementary hanggang highschool, wala akong parent na nagsasabit sa akin ng medalya. Teacher ko lang ang tumatayong parent ko,” he recalled. “Malungkot, syempre, kasi para kanino ba ‘yung mga medalya na ‘yun? Hindi lang naman para sa akin kundi para sa nanay at tatay ko.” But life without his parents went on for him. Some individuals were kind enough to support Kim in his financial situation and send him to college. He finally even met his dad who wanted Kim to migrate to Malaysia. However, he declined all of those opportunities and opted to work in Manila. “Hindi na. Sa lahat naman ng naging laban ko sa buhay, wala namang ibang tumulong sa akin kundi ibang tao.”

At that time, Kim was lucky enough to have been recruited by an agency that will give him a job at one of the well-known call centers in Manila. He could almost taste success, “gusto kong magkaroon ng bagong version ng buhay”. These dreams turned into a wishful thinking in just a blink of an eye. He was scammed. The agency wasn’t legitimate so he was forced to decide if he will just book another ticket back to Palawan or continue with his Manila ordeal.

“Sabi ng guard doon sa NAIA, ‘Sir, if I were you, I’d get another ticket at umuwi ka na kasi walang mangyayari sa’yo dito sa Manila.'” Being the fighter Kim is, he did not listen to the advice of the security guard. “Hindi pride ‘yung nananalayatay sa’kin ‘nun eh, gusto ko talagang mapaganda ‘yung buhay namin ni mommy… Gagawin ko ang lahat para maibigay ko kay mommy at sa sarili ko.”

For two months, he called Luneta Park his home. “‘Yung mga pulubi, namuhay ako na katulad nila,” he shared. “‘Yung buhay na mangangalakal ka, manghihingi ka ng pagkain sa iba… masalimuot pero pinagdaanan ko lahat.” Like most informal settlers, Kim also experienced being caught by the roaming vehicles of DSWD but he, along with his companions, escaped the center and went back to their lives in Luneta.

Luneta Park is a symbolic place for the Filipinos, and for Kim it held so much more meaning. Here, he found his friends whom he shared the same life with for two months. He said that he has encountered a lot of people in Luneta – there were robbers, drug addicts, pushers, liars, and the like. Alas, Kim found someone good. Or so he thought was good. He met a recruiter who offered him a job in Nueva Ecija wherein he will repack onions and garlic. But fate wasn’t just on Kim’s side, for he was scammed once again although this time, there was a job. “Nagulat ako, magbibilad pala ako ng palay.”

Again, Kim had no choice but to suck up his decision to move from Manila to Nueva Ecija. “Alam mo, nagbibilad ako ‘nun ng palay tapos lumuluha lang ako.” “Every night, tinatanong ko kay God, ‘kailan Mo ako yayayain sa isang magandang opportunity naman?'” Kim was hopeless and he did not know what else he could do to improve his way of life. “Nagtatanim ako ‘nun ng palay, tapos lumuluha ako, pero tiniis ko.”

THE MORNING AFTER

Little did he know that he needed to experience all those hardships in order for him to get to where he is supposed to be. While trudging the fields of palay, he used his skill as a tour guide to give local tours to tourists visiting the place. That was when the owners of the palayan knew that he could speak in English. He became a tutor of the owner’s children, and these then eventually was whom he considered family. “Sila ang naging daan ko para makapasok ako ng call center sa Sta. Rosa.” That was when Kim had found the light amidst the darkness. Even though he already employed in a call center, he was still doing his job at the palayan. 

Eventually, all of those paid off. The owners of the palayan saw how dedicated and persevering he was and offered to loan him money to start his own business. From the rural places of Palawan to Puerto Prinsesa, Manila, Nueva Ecija, Kim found a new home in Laguna. “Nangolekta ako ng mga plastic bottles na basura, nililinis ko, nirerecycle at ‘dun ako kumita,” he said. He was able to house his mom and cousins in his humble abode. “May pera nga sa basura,” he shared, “Dito kami umunlad.” Currently, he has grown his trading business that is now operating with 50 employees.

If you would look at it, Kim, now in his mid-twenties, can be considered as financially stable as his business is already booming. 

“Gustong gusto ko matapos kahit na ngayon kaya ko na mag-provide para sa sarili ko, o bumili ng kahit ano,” he said. “The freedom in life is not about money, hindi ‘yun ‘yung achievement na masasabi ko. Success siguro, oo. ‘Yung achievement kasi para sa akin is that you’re walking along a path na maraming tao nang tinatawag ang pangalan mo at may magsasabit ng medalya sa’kin. ‘Yun yung personal achievement ko.”

With all of Kim’s experiences, he did not give up. “May mga times na naging weak ako, tinatanong ko si God, ‘Bakit ganito?’ pero kinabukasan, ‘pag gising ko, alam kong isang araw na naman ‘yun na dumating sa akin para mabago ko ang buhay ko.” His message to his fellow Perpetualites is simple: “If you want to live a positive life, forget a negative mind.”

As we went through the course of his story, he really had to be in Luneta so he could meet the person that will bring him to Nueva Ecija, and so on and so forth. It is a chain reaction. For all the times he questioned the events happening to him, now he fully understood why they were all meant to happen. 

Now, Kim’s a successful businessman who’s looking to expand his business and at the same time, he is an aspiring educator that will be of inspiration to the people he’s going to teach someday. Life is not always about hardships, and everything you go through in life has its own meaning. Like the pattern of daytime and nighttime, we also experience our own darkness in life. However, may we never cease to look forward to the morning after.

Going Across the Board: My Two Cents Worth

By: Clyn Joy R. Faraon

Globalization has long been seen to be a gamble for all countries. While this might ensure positive economic effects in the long run of things, this would also set us up for painstakingly hard adjustments in short-term. Most of its seeds have already took part in the roots of our country without us even realising it. Some of our Perpetualite parents; whom work hard abroad to provide for their families and send cash to our country’s stagnant economy that can’t even generate enough decent paying jobs in our own country.

But you can’t blame them for trying to find good paying jobs if their own country can’t even provide a salary enough to send their young ones to get their diplomas. It doesn’t even need to be as complicated as this to see the effects of globalization.

For example: take a regular Filipino student who’s fond of Korean clothing. She’d buy it for the trend, but there’s another brand with the exact same clothes for a cheaper price but made locally? And with the incoming spike in prices that we’re all expecting in these few months it might get even more frantic. 

The timing is definitely bad, sure, there are several local companies out there getting ready to integrate internationally, but this would mean new protocols, business models and loads more terms I don’t know about but I’m pretty sure costs a lot of money. This combined with the recent inflation doesn’t really mix well with the batter; everything would just cost more, but does your monthly salary inflate as well? Of course it won’t. 

Our Philippine Peso nearly reaching 54 vs 1 US Dollar; I’ve heard people talk about it, how nice it is for them to receive a little more than usual. I’ve got nothing against that although it seems that they still remain ignorant on how the Philippines currently economy is going down the gutter. 

Too many people yell for change, not even half of those individuals actually do something about it. In that sense, you’ll ask for a “new” president and expect it’s all rainbows and unicorns from here on out without hitting a few road blocks? Or without actually practicing the principles they sought to do. 

Inflation is only one of the first hurdles when it comes to globalization, there are more to come for our country. Whether you stand by or do something about it is up to you, but I wish most of us, would at least put in the effort to adjust, to try and do something about it.

The Travel Battle (Why Some Students Don’t Live in a Dorm)

By Clyn Joy R. Faraon

It’s obvious, most students who reside far from their chosen university opt to get a dormitory or an apartment near the school where they can stay while earning the degree on their chosen track. But there are also these fearless explorers who choose to break the norm and go through the journey to and from college despite the distance.

It’s no secret that traffic in the Philippines is terrible, and we all know how exhausting commuting could be— the stress from the traffic congestion, the time wasted waiting for the jeepney or bus that took forever to land an inch, the heartbeat-skipping possibility that you’re going to be late, and you might also add the hot season in the Philippines that has the power to transform a person from a beauty to a beast, real quick. You know, that moment when you left home pretty and you got to school scary. Short horror story.

But here’s the kicker and the reasons why some Perpetualites aren’t just dorming regardless of all the inconveniences I just mentioned above.

“Mas gusto ko mag-uwian kasi, lalo na sa course ko na Arki, pagod na pagod. At least ‘pag uwian ako, andun ‘yung nanay ko na nag-aasikaso, tumutulong sa paglalaba at nagluluto ng pagkain. ‘Yun kasi yung sobrang nakakamiss na part, ‘yung luto ni mama. Saka masaya rin mag-uwian kasi feeling mo araw-araw field trip. ‘Yung tipong pag tinanong ka kung taga-san ka, kailangan mo pa ituro sa mapa.”

Von Aeron Baral
4th year, BS Architecture
Alitagtag, Batangas

“It is actually because of my mom. Pag nagdorm ako, walang kasama ang mom. And honestly, I’m still in the process of preparing myself to live life independently. One thing about commuting for almost 4 years is that it made me feel that I’m much stronger and ready to deal whoever person I might face. Every commute for me is a story, a story that contributes to my everyday experiences.”

Patrick Treyes
4th year, BS BA- Marketing Management
San Pablo City, Laguna

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“Sinubukan ko ng magdorm dati, eh nahirapan ako kasi hindi malaki ‘yung space. Ang hirap magdraft. Tsaka sa chores, pagka nagdodorm ka mas madami pa ‘yung gawain imbis makapagfocus sa schoolworks. Mahirap bumyahe pero ‘yun na ‘yung nagiging pahinga ko minsan, natutulog nalang ako sa bus.”

Mick Edrick Marcellana

4th year, BS Architecture

Pila, Laguna

“Sa totoo lang wala pa kasi akong makitang maayos na apartment kaya nagtitiyaga ako magcommute. Sobrang hirap pero tiyagaan muna kasi kailangan pumasok. Although merong malapit na school dito samin, may nagsabi kasing maganda daw ang turo dito sa Perpetual kaya nagpasya ako na dito na lang.

Eugene Gabriel Joyas
4th year, BS Civil Engineering
Tiaong, Quezon

“Pinili ko mag-uwian since I had to help my dad before sa company which is in Makati, then my school is in Calamba, so gitna lang yung tinitirahan ko which is a win-win situation for me- malapit sa school at malapit sa office. Another thing is that mas comfortable ako sa bahay kasi andito yung mga gamit ko, my computers and other comm-related stuff.”

Kim Renzelberg Austria
4th year, AB Communications
Muntinlupa City, Metro Manila

“Kaya mas prefer ko mag-uwian dahil may anak akong nag-aantay sakin, gusto ko syempre may time pa din ako sa kanya. Nag-aaral na din kasi kaya kailangan ko din mag-uwian para may mag-asikaso sa kanya. Another thing is that makakasama mo family mo pag uwian unlike pag nagdodorm ka.”

Laarni Grace Francisco
4th year, AB Psychology
Taguig City, Metro Manila

“Being practical, since graduating at may thesis ako, mas okay na sa’kin bumiyahe ng malayo kesa kumuha ng dorm kasi mas mahal yung bills kesa sa magiging pamasahe ko. Piga kasi talaga bayarin kapag may thesis.”

Carla Pamela Noriesta
5th year, BS Civil Engineering
Victoria, Laguna

“Para sa’kin mas convenient s’ya kasi kasama mo yung pamilya mo. Kasi kung magdodorm ako, konti lang yung oras ko para sa kanila. Saka natuto rin akong i-value yung time dahil sa pagcocommute ng malayo, natuto akong hindi i-take for granted yung oras na meron ako.”

Conrad Mari Batacan
5th year, BS Architecture
Bae, Laguna